The Color of Friendship

I was sitting in the doctor's office waiting to be called when an elderly White lady and her daughter walked in. I could tell that this elderly woman had Alzheimers because of how she talked and behaved. When they took their seats, I noticed that the mother kept staring at me. Her daughter was trying … Continue reading The Color of Friendship

For the Small-Boned Women

Ugh, I'm about to rant. You know it's coming so get ready because it happened (again). This time I was with my cousins... Having small bones can be so frustrating at times. For me, that frustration comes into play whenever I'm out shopping for unique pieces of jewelry. My cousins and friends can walk into … Continue reading For the Small-Boned Women

Respect the Bonnet!

I'm back, but only for a minute. I was tasked to blog about this a few weeks ago and forgot. Let's do this! 👊🏾 Respect the bonnet! The hair bonnet that is. Depending on where you're from, some folks call it a bonnet and others call it a head rag. In my family, we use … Continue reading Respect the Bonnet!

Don’t Sweat It

Time for another random post in response to a blog request. For those of you who are new to my blog, you can always email blog topic requests to This post may be a bit lengthy FYI. I have a young reader in her twenties who recently experienced prejudice within the workplace. I was … Continue reading Don’t Sweat It

Hair Swap Challenge

Time for another random post! This one is kinda long...🤔 Sooooooo, some of my friends have been bugging me about participating in some of the hair swap challenges. For those of you who aren't familiar with this challenge, it's when you swap your hair care routine with someone else's hair care routine. With that being … Continue reading Hair Swap Challenge

Focus on What Really Matters

Sometimes we can be too consumed about other people and what's going on in their lives. If you ask me, that's a frivolous waste of one's time and I don't like to waste my time. I've been accused of "not caring" at times, but I can tell you that's not always the case. It's just … Continue reading Focus on What Really Matters