Just Disgusting

I had a dear in-law of mine ask me if I would blog about an unpleasant experience she had to unfortunately deal with. Not only that, she asked if I would share my own personal experiences. For her, I most certainly will. Let me warn you, this is going to be a long blog post.

One of my dearest in-laws who is White was called a coal burner. Why? Because she is married to one of my cousins who is Black. How disgusting! It upsetted her so bad that she broke down in tears. That really made me angry. From what she and my other White in-laws have explained to me, if you’re an attractive White woman who dates or is married to a Black man, you are called this derogatory term by racist / prejudiced White men. SMH…

You see, the White women my cousins are married to are attractive slim blondes and brunettes; I’m led to believe that this upsets racist / prejudiced individuals with low self-esteem. This notion of mine was backed up by my White in-laws. Now that’s some foul and disgusting behavior.

I personally have received “looks” of disapproval because the White men who ask me out are tall, well-built and well-off. The “dolled up” Anita pales in comparison to the Anita most people see during the day. I remember overhearing one woman say I was asked out only because my weave made me look “mixed” SMH. Did you know it’s unreal for a Black woman to have hair all down her back that’s hers? (Insert Sarcasm) Don’t get me started on the expensive gifts I’ve received and still receive. It’s enough to send racist / prejudiced inviduals into a full blown anger induced conniption fit! How sad…

Why make hurtful comments towards an individual because they chose to fall in love with a person based on their character and not their color? Also, one cannot assume that because an individual chooses to date or marry someone of the opposite race that they don’t care for or have never dated within their own race. Love doesn’t have a color and if more people spreaded love instead of hate, the world would be a much better place.

Until next time…

2 thoughts on “Just Disgusting

  1. Of course I find that repugnant! In no way do I pretend that I have received as much prejudice as black persons. Just so you know my sister’s former in laws called our whole family “sand n…..”(the n word) because of our middle eastern background. There are other instances of rejection, persecution because of being half Iranian. All such treatment, violence won’t even be a memory in Jehovah’s cleansed new world! Love you!

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    1. I’ve unfortunately heard that term to refer to Middle Eastern individuals and its a very disgusting and repugnant word. Very hurtful on so many levels. Indeed Jehovah will rid such hateful and unkind behavior. It’s so hurtful to dislike a person solely on race and race alone. The Devil is busy! Love you more my dear sister and friend! ❤️❤️❤️

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