How Come?

Marry for money that is. Since I’m on a brief break from writing, I had to take a moment to blog about this after seeing another article on this. Do you know how many women are stuck in a loveless marriage because they married for money? Millions! The statistics don’t lie, look it up. Many carry on adulterous affairs behind their husband’s back because even though they love his money, they don’t love him. How sad…

In the past, I was criticized for not marrying for money and as I stated once before, I could have been married several times. Even though they all loved me deeply and had plenty of money to burn, I didn’t love them. They deserve to be with someone who would love them back equally, if not more. I couldn’t do that to them. I wouldn’t be able to live with myself and besides, that’s not fair to them.

I don’t want to be like some women, unable to care for myself because I married a man for his income. What happens if it doesn’t work out and you don’t receive a fair amount of alimony to care for your needs or standard of cost of living that you were once used to? Something to think about…

In my personal social circles (which is all across the United States), I encounter men of all races who have plenty of money and like to show it off. If I wanted to have them and / or their money, I easily could. It would take very little effort on my part. Let me just say that when I’m dressed up with my hair out or down, I don’t have to work hard to get a man with a lot of money nor do I even have to look for it.

Using” people is not my thing because I wouldn’t want someone to do that to me. To me, that’s cruel and unacceptable. If I’m going to marry someone, I first have to love him. To each his own, but Bookinganita wouldn’t have it any other way.

Until next time…

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