I was recently asked if my honesty has affected me negatively in my life. My answer to that question is Yes. I was also asked if I think my honesty has held me back in life. My answer to that question is also Yes. Last but not least, I was asked if I regret my being honest. My answer to that question is No. Here is why…
When you are honest despite the pressure to lie or to conform, you are showing that you are one incredible individual! Your honesty proves that you have a mind of your own and that you are not afraid to tell the truth even if it puts you at a distance or at a disadvantage. Do you want to know something even more interesting? When you are honest, those around you will inevitably show just who they really are. Just watch….
So many people are naive to think that lying will take you far in life. Sure, maybe to an extent, until it all comes crumbling down and it will eventually. It always does. I have witnessed so many people dig ditches for themselves because they are trying to cover one lie over another lie and so on and so forth. I sleep well at night knowing that I have not sold seeds of lies and that to me is a thing of beauty. A clean conscience I tell you is absolutely beautiful!
If those around you cannot accept your level of honesty, do not sweat it. Some people just enjoy being lied to. Others simply cannot handle the truth. Some people even get mad at the truth. Even with that being said, you keep on being the honest you.
Until next time…
Honesty can sometimes be difficult especially when you are faced with a volatile situation. Sometimes you just have to make a stand and tell the truth even if it will hurt you or the person who need to know the truth.
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I think that honesty is always the best policy. As much as it hurts sometimes, the truth is always best.
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I am in total agreement, honesty indeed is the best policy. Though maybe in the short run, your honesty may look like an impediment, but it is definitely going to stand in good stead in the long run.
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This is so true no alternative facts will stand for long. G Hawkins
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I’ve lost job opportunities because I wasn’t willing to be dishonest. It’s really true that you have to be willing to be a little dishonest to move up in this world and it’s not worth it to me.
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Wow! I hate that. Kudos to you for being honest. I’m sure you’ve been blessed in other ways! 🙏
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I believe that bring honest is the best policy. Yes it can be tough some times as some people do not want to hear the truth but I believe in being honest.
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I have into your situation where my honesty got me in trouble but I didn’t regret it. After that though, I am very cautious.
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Honesty is always the best. It can be hard, sometimes hurtful, but then you don’t have to worry about who you told what. Even with kids.
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Agreed!
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I agree that honesty is a double-edged sword at times but overall it’s best to be honest. As they say, honesty is the best policy.
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Being honest is good- but sometimes holding back is good too 🙂 Honesty should always be practiced along with tact.
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I do think it’s better to be honest. Lying does probably lead to some shortcuts but it’s just not worth it.
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This really hits home for me because I wasn’t raised to value honesty. As I’ve become an adult though I embrace it and it’s the only way!
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Sorry to hear that. Continue to embrace honesty. You’ll be glad you did. All the best to you! 🙏
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I am honest even if it means answering something I know other people think is wrong or don’t want to hear. I want honesty from others so feel it is my responsibility to be honest to them.
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My sentiments exactly!
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I don’t think you can beat honesty, sometimes it can hurt, but it is always for the best.
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Honesty is always the best choice. Plus it allows people to know they are getting the real you.
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Honesty is always the best policy, even though it can get you in trouble. I am struggling with my 18 year old daughter right now who likes to lie about everything under the sun.
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Exactly! I agree.
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I so agree with you! I’m always honest, and some people have said I’m too blunt. But I’d rather have honesty in my life than lies.
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Spot on! I can relate.
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Love all the different quotes about honesty. Honesty really is the best policy no matter what.
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I love this! For me, honesty is always the best policy. I can’t imagine lying to others to get what you want in life. It will always backfire because I believe we reap what we sow. Love these quotes too!
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Thank you! Exactly! 😊
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